Written by: Lennard M. Goetze, Ed.D & edited by: Marilyn Abrahamson (editor of INSIGHTS Magazine)
Foreword
In today’s rapidly evolving healthcare landscape, the intersection of mental health, hormonal wellness, and sexual health is receiving long-overdue attention. As traditional medical approaches often fall short in addressing the complex, deeply personal challenges faced by individuals experiencing sexual dysfunction, integrative medicine offers new avenues for healing.
Dr. Barbara Bartlik, a distinguished psychiatrist, sex therapist, and leader in integrative medicine, has dedicated her career to bridging these disciplines. Through decades of clinical experience, academic teaching, and active participation in leading medical symposia, Dr. Bartlik advocates for comprehensive, evidence-based approaches that treat the whole person—not just isolated symptoms.In the following feature, Dr. Bartlik highlights emerging trends in sexual health, the alarming decline in libido and testosterone, and the growing influence of modern lifestyle factors on intimacy and relationships. Drawing upon both conventional and integrative strategies, she makes a compelling case for why new solutions are urgently needed—and how integrative, functional medicine can help fill that gap.
Integrative Solutions for Sexual Wellness (Part 1): Beyond the Prescription Pad
Dr. Bartlik highlights the ongoing need for more effective, evidence-based solutions for sexual problems in both men and women. While two medications for low sexual desire are now approved for premenopausal women—a significant achievement—these treatments have been slow to gain widespread acceptance and are notably not covered by insurance for postmenopausal women, a demographic that urgently needs support.
She notes that while medications such as Viagra and related drugs offer benefits, they are not a universal answer. The fact that approximately half of prescriptions for these medications go unrefilled underscores the need for innovative, integrative, and personalized approaches to sexual health care.
Disconnected: Why Couples Are Having Less Sex — and What to Do About It
Before summarizing integrative therapies, Dr. Bartlik reviews prevalent sexual health concerns that demand new solutions. Chief among them is low libido, a common sexual complaint that has long been the most frequently reported issue among women. Contributing factors include relationship difficulties, busy schedules, restrictive cultural or religious backgrounds, concerns about physical appearance, menopausal symptoms, vaginal pain, and the lasting effects of cancer and its treatments.
She references Rosemary Basson’s model of the female sexual response, which suggests that many women do not typically experience spontaneous sexual desire. Instead, desire often emerges in response to a partner’s initiation. However, if male partners are experiencing their own issues, including diminished libido, this dynamic can become further complicated.
Studies show that the frequency of sexual activity among both married couples and individuals in relationships has declined to historic lows, a trend exacerbated during the COVID-19 pandemic and persisting in its aftermath.
Stress and Screens: How Modern Life Is Eroding Intimacy
Men, too, are experiencing lower libido rates than in previous generations. Dr. Bartlik attributes this trend to a combination of factors: anxiety, mood disorders, stress, shifting social roles, economic pressures, sedentary lifestyle, and the use of medication. These factors contribute to a reduction in testosterone levels and decreased interest in forming intimate relationships.Increased access to alternative sexual outlets such as online pornography has also altered interpersonal dynamics—men don’t desire real women as much as they used to, which is very distressing to women. Excessive screen time through exposure to content that is not explicit also takes away from time that would otherwise be spent on social or sexual engagement. While younger individuals may gravitate toward video games, older adults often turn to television and streaming media, further diminishing opportunities for connection.
Testosterone in Freefall: What It Means for Men, Women, and Relationships
A particularly concerning issue Dr. Bartlik addresses is the significant decline in testosterone levels among men. She cites research indicating that a 22-year-old man today has an average testosterone level equivalent to that of a 67-year-old man in the year 2000. Overall, testosterone levels have dropped more than 20% over the past two decades—from an average of 600 ng/dL in 2000 to approximately 450 ng/dL in 2018. Currently, one in four men over the age of 30 has clinically low testosterone.
Alongside this, sperm counts have declined by 60% in the last 40 years, with male infertility on the rise. Dr. Bartlik underscores that testosterone is essential not only for sexual health but also for mental well-being, affecting mood, anxiety, sleep, self-esteem, vitality, and overall energy.
Modern Intimacy in Crisis: The Integrative Medicine Perspective
While previously mentioned factors play a role, Dr. Bartlik notes that other contributors of particular interest to the integrative medicine community merit further exploration. By considering hormonal health, nutrition, lifestyle habits, environmental exposures, and the psychosocial landscape, integrative practitioners have an opportunity to develop new, personalized, evidence-based therapies that address the complex, interconnected challenges of sexual health in the 21st century.
Dr. Barbara Bartlik is an integrative psychiatrist and sex therapist known for her holistic approach to mental and sexual health. She earned her medical degree from the Albert Einstein College of Medicine and completed a residency and fellowship at NYU. Early in her career, she trained under Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan, a pioneering sex therapist, and later worked at Weill Cornell Medical College. Dr. Bartlik’s interest in integrative medicine grew from personal health challenges, leading her to adopt dietary changes, remove mercury dental fillings, and use nutritional supplements—experiences that significantly improved her well-being. These transformations inspired her to incorporate integrative practices into her psychiatric care, emphasizing nutrition and addressing deficiencies to enhance mood and health, often reducing the need for psychiatric medications.
She is particularly focused on sexual health, noting the negative impact psychiatric medications can have on sexual function. By combining psychiatric care with holistic strategies, Dr. Bartlik helps minimize medication reliance while improving mental and sexual well-being. A board-certified expert in integrative medicine, she frequently presents at prominent conferences and advocates for better solutions in sexual health, particularly for postmenopausal women.