Sunday, May 11, 2025

Part 1, 2 and 3

PART 1
 

PART 2

 PART 3


Hello everyone. I am Dr. Barbara Bartlik, and I am presenting a lecture that I delivered at Mount Sinai Medical Center to the psychoanalytic organizations. And I'm delighted to speak with you today. I would like to briefly tell you about how I became an integrative psychiatrist and sex therapist. Then I'll discuss why integrative medicine is an important approach for healing, sexual problems and an essential tool for therapists. After graduating from the Albert Einstein College of Medicine, I did my residency and research fellowship at NYU. I then studied sex therapy with the sex therapy pioneer Helen Singer Kaplan, and became an associate in her private practice for several years. I then joined the faculty practice at Weill Cornell, where I saw patients with sexual problems and psychiatric issues. In searching for my own solutions to health problems for myself, I became interested in integrative and functional medicine. I started taking vitamins, had mercury fillings removed, changed my diet, and lo and behold, I got better. I went from needing to take antibiotics and steroids frequently for sinus and skin problems, to never needing them again. I began recommending magnesium and other nutritional supplements to my patients and had very positive results. If a person has a deficiency in magnesium or another essential nutrient, they may experience psychiatric problems and other health issues with supplementation.

A person's mood improves. They need less psychiatric medicine if they need it at all, and sometimes they don't have to take it at all. The integrative approach is essential for sexual health because psychiatric medicines almost always have adverse sexual side effects. So the less psychiatric medication you give, the better, as long as the psychiatric symptoms are well controlled. Over the years I attended integrative and functional medicine symposia, I was hungry to learn. I took a qualifying exam, which led to my being grandfathered into the new board certified specialty of integrative medicine. And I attended and presented at the Integrative Healthcare Symposium in Manhattan. This annual meeting held every February presents high quality, scientifically rigorous lectures by leaders in the field, as well as opportunities for professional networking. I highly recommend it. We need more solutions for sexual problems of men and women.

Premenopausal women now have two medications for low sexual desire, which is a great accomplishment, but these medicines are slow to gain acceptance and are not covered by insurance for post postmenopausal women. And those women need help the most. Viagra like medicines are great, but they are not always the answer. The fact that half of the prescriptions are that are written are not refilled is a clear indication of the urgent need for new, more effective solutions. Evidence-based integrative medicine solutions as either standalone or adjunctive therapies could be the answer we need to think outside the box and act. Now, before I briefly summarize these therapies, I'd like to review some of the sexual health concerns that require new solutions. Low libido is an increasingly common sexual complaint. It has long been the number one sexual complaint of women for varied reasons. Relationship problems, restrictive upbringing, concerns about attractiveness, menopausal complaints, vaginal pain, sequelae of cancer, and its treatment and more. Rosemary bean's model of the sexual response, which is not accepted by everyone in the field, indicates that many women do not experience spontaneous sexual desire. Instead, their desire comes about in response to their partner's initiation. But what if their partners are initiating lists due to their own issues? Studies show that the frequency of sexual interaction between married couples and single people in relationships is now at an all time low. It diminished during the pandemic and it remained low significantly.

Men today are reported to have lower libidos now than in the past. There are many possible reasons for this. Anxiety and mood disorders, stress changing roles and relationships between men and women, social and economic impediments to intimate relationships, all of these things can lower testosterone levels. Men also now have more sexual outlets, such as pornography. Many men today are less interested in forming intimate relationships and having sex with real women, which is very distressing to women. Excessive screen time may be another factor, changing couple's behavior, and not only due to pornography, but because screen time is taking time away from normal social and sexual behaviors. Young people tend to spend more time playing video games while older people spend more time watching TV shows and movies. Now I'm going to talk about a big problem.

It's the declining testosterone levels in men. On the slide, you'll see there's that- today, a 22-year-old man has a testosterone level that is the same as a 67-year-old man in the year 2000. That's quite a drop. Testosterone levels have dropped more than 20% in the last 20 years. The average testosterone in 2000 in a man was 600 and, and in, in, oh, let me go over that. I have to start that one again. . Testosterone levels have dropped more than 20% in 20 years. In the year 2000, the average testosterone level was 600.

In 2018, when the study was done, it, it was down to 450. It dropped 150 points on average, that is huge. One in four men today, over 30 years of age, have low testosterone. Sperm counts have declined by 60% in the last 40 years, and male infertility is on the rise. So testosterone, we know how important it's for sexuality, especially in men, but it also affects more than just sex. It impacts mental health, anxiety, insomnia, mood, self-esteem, vitality, energy, and more. So what are the causes of low testosterone? I just mentioned a few earlier, but there are others that are of great interest to the integrative medicine community. . On this slide, you'll see they are endocrine disrupting chemicals such as, BPA, heavy metals, parabens, phthalates, also antibiotics and hormones in meat. These all disrupt the hormones and, and usually diminish testosterone. Also, poor lifestyle choice choices.

People are more sedentary today and we have more metabolic syndrome and more obesity than ever. And this can also lead into diabetes, which is a killer for sexuality. Inadequate diet. People are eating nutritionally depleted, processed foods and contributes to that, contributes to poor health in so many ways. Also, people don't realize it, but the medications they take deplete micronutrients that are needed to make hormones and neurotransmitters. This is very serious. , in my opinion, if a person is on a medication, any medication, psychiatric or otherwise, they should look up what micronutrients are depleted by those medications and consider taking a nutritional supplement of those. Sometimes it's magnesium, zinc, B vitamins, vitamin C, all of those can get depleted by medications. Your body uses up the vitamins in the metabolism, or it makes, makes you excrete these vitamins and minerals the medication, so you, it's really good to supplement, to prevent a deficiency.

Also, testosterone depletion could be due to wifi and cell phones. Some research indicates this, but we, we don't have, but all the data is not in yet, so it's good to wherever possible, turn off your wifi, , and, and minimize exposure, , of your body to your cell phone. An unhealthy diet and lifestyle can contribute or even cause sexual problems. Sometimes clients can be seen as treatment resistant or unresponsive to sex therapy or mental health treatment, when really the problem is an undetected physiologic problem. Clients feel cared for when their therapist helps them find new ways to improve their health. Integrative medicine counseling is perceived as psychologically supportive and it improves anxiety and move mood. When clients improve their lifestyles, they lose weight and often need less medication for psychiatric and medical conditions. And then because they're off medicine or on less medicine, their sexual functioning improves.

The next slide shows you some integrative approaches to improving sexual health. Adequate sleep is very important because during sleep, your sex hormones are produced. Adequate sleep gives you better energy and mood helps prevent weight gain, and it does improve sexual functioning. People who are sleep deprived have sexual problems. We see that in our patients who have sleep apnea syndrome. Also, there are many ancient traditional therapies that have been, have been shown in some research studies to work. They are acupuncture, aromatherapy, Ayurveda, botanical medicine, European hydrotherapy with cold and warm washes, traditional Chinese medicine and others that help sexual problems. Exercise is extremely beneficial for sex. Did you know that anaerobic exercise, such as exercising large muscle groups as in lifting weights and doing squats, increases testosterone in men as much as taking a testosterone supplement? Sometimes, it is possible that anaerobic exercise will also raise women's testosterone, but we have less research on that.

Exercise is associated with better sexual functioning studies of people, men and women going into yoga programs shows that their sexual performance and satisfaction improves as well as their flexibility. And also exercise improves overall fitness appearance, your attractiveness to your partner, weight control, and so on. The Mediterranean style diet is sex positive. That has been proven scientifically, probably because it is anti-inflammatory. And when you have less inflammation, your body functions better. Sexually, alcohol disrupts sleep and it impairs sexual performance. It also strains your liver. So if your liver is busy metabolizing the alcohol, it can't do the other important things it needs to do to pro protect your hormones and other functions. Smoking is bad because it damages your blood vessels, as among other things increases blood pressure. It is just the worst thing you can do. Now, micronutrients on this slide are listed.

Now on this slide- we show the micronutrients that are necessary for good sexual functioning. They balance hormones, they enhance your blood flow and they improve neurotransmitter function. So the vitamins that are the most important for sex are B six, B12 c, d, boron, folate, iron, magnesium, niacin, sodi, and zinc. These have all been shown scientifically to aid sexual functioning. Also, the amino acids that are important for sexual functioning are l-arginine and L-citrulline. These are precursor to nitric oxide. And nitric oxide is responsible for the dilatation of the blood vessels and critical to sexual functioning. Also, omega, also Omega-3 fatty acids support, hormone metabolism, cardiovascular health and neurologic function. So it's very important to get these fatty acids, if not from fatty fish. That's wild caught and safe.

Then from nutritional supplements that are clean. So on the next slide are some of the top botanical medicine supplements that people can take to improve their sexual health. And most of these are supported by research. Ashwagandha, Deana Ginseng, horny Goat Weed, Rhodiola, Sheila Git, and Tribulus. Now cannabis is a favorite. 30% of people who buy cannabis and use it are doing it for sexual reasons because they have, they enjoy how they feel sexually on the cannabis. Alright. , and now that it's available over the counter in various forms, edibles, capsules, tinctures, lotions, lubricants, it's easy to get. And even senior citizens are using it a lot now, where they wouldn't have before when it was illegal. 

CBD is a cannabinoid, but it does not have the hallucinogenic properties that cannabis has. So it doesn't make you high, but it relaxes you. And some people find that CBD is very good for their sexuality and we're finding it now in lotions and lubricants, massage oils and so forth, as well as oral, oral forms. Now, DHEA is a hormone. It's the hormone that gives rise to estrogen and testosterone in the body naturally. And it does enhance sex in research studies. It can be taken orally by men or women or vaginally by women with or without a prescription. There is now a an FDA approved DHEA vaginal cream, which is helpful. , so, and you can also, go to compounding pharmacists and get DHEA from a compounding pharmacist in a vaginal cream.

Oxytocin. The cuddle hormone, or the love hormone, is available by prescription at compounding pharmacies as oral atrocious and nasal sprays. This makes people feel more sexual. It makes people feel more sympathetic, more understanding of others. It's a good thing, but it is very expensive and not covered by insurance. None of these, by the way, are covered by insurance, so you have to be prepared to pay for them. , now, now we're going to the next slide where we, I talk about off-label compounded creams. ? These are creams that men and women can use to enhance sexual functioning. Some of them have been studied in research, others have not. They are mostly medications that dilate blood vessels or enhance hormones. When men take these creams, they have to insert them into their penis through the urethra with a small plunger and no, so that is uncomfortable. Women merely have to massage it into the vulva and cl clitoris and they by, because they dilate blood vessels and enhance hormones, they can have a sex positive effect. So I'm just going to list a few. , they can be made of any combination. You could pick any two or three or four and put the pharmacist can put them into a compounded mixture for you.

Nitroglycerin, L-arginine, Viagra like medicines, phentolamine, theophylline, and niacin B three. , the female cream preparations may include DHEA, estradiol and testosterone. I think the best way to learn about what products are most popular, what combinations is to consult a large compounding pharmacist who handles a lot of patients and ask what preparations are most popular. Since many of these are prescription items, you can't buy them over the counter, but some of the ingredients like niacin and arginine are over the counter and you can get them over the counter, , in creams. , we have over the counter, moisturizers and arousal creams for women. Mostly not evidence-based, not well researched, , but they contain things like hyaluronic acid, vitamin E, coconut oil, cinnamon, which is warming, and peppermint, which is cooling the warming alternating cooling effect can be arousing for some women. Also, cacao, ginger maca, wild yam and many more ingredients are included in these products. We now have an FDA gel for men. It's called oxon and let me start that over. We now have an FDA approved gel for men called Oxon. The mechanism by which it works is through cooling by evaporation. It contains an alcohol product that as it evaporates, makes the head of the penis feel cool. And then there is a warming response that increases penile blood flow.

Now I'm going to tell you on the next slide about a case in my practice. This is a 39-year-old woman with severe premenstrual dysphoria. She's a 39-year-old married mother who was referred to me for treatment of severe premenstrual dysphoria and irritability. She was drinking two glasses of wine a night. She had been sexually abused by an older sibling when she was a child, and she struggled with vaginismus from her late teens till her early thirties. At age 34. After several years with her husband, she underwent treatment with vaginal dilators and she could finally have sexual intercourse. However, after the birth of her child, the vaginismus returned and she could not have intercourse for two years, but she and her husband engaged in other forms of sexual activity treatment. Next slide. I prescribed for her sertraline 50 milligrams. During the luteal phase of her cycle for premenstrual symptoms, she began taking a detox shake and nutritional supplements designed to address female hormone balance, including vitamins DB six, B12 E, vitamin, folate, magnesium, quercetin, and Omega-3 fatty acids.

She also changed her diet from one that was high in carbohydrates to the paleo diet, which is gluten, dairy, sugar, and alcohol free. Her premenstrual symptoms improved after two months, but she still had vaginismus. I put her on 50 milligrams of Viagra orally as needed an hour before sex or more, which was very effective. Effective. She not here, let me start that over. She started 50 milligrams of Viagra orally as needed, which was very effective. She noticed that her vagina felt mushy, more open, relaxed, and lubricated. And after a few tries she had no pain on penetration. Now, after only four months in treatment, she regularly engages in sexual intercourse on Viagra. Her PMS is largely gone and she has lost eight pounds and she's very happy with that. She said that the sertraline increases the amount of time it takes for her to achieve orgasm, but she does not find that a problem.

So in this case, the nutritional supplements that this patient took improved the metabolism of estrogen and reduced estrogen dominance, which is associated with premenstrual symptoms and other female problems. Although women have been taking Viagra like medicines off-label for decades, the research on use in women is mixed. Some studies report that they are effective in treating antidepressant induced sexual dysfunction when taken orally, and others find that they're not effective at all. Viagra is also made into creams that are applied to the vulva and that has been studied and in one study it was found to be helpful. In my opinion, Viagra oral and topical is beneficial for women with pain on penetration. I've also seen it work in menopausal problem. I've also seen it work in menopausal women with this problem, but there's almost no research on this population. I think it warrants further study strengthening the pelvic floor muscles enhances bladder control and improve sexual functioning in both women and men.

However, many people find doing kegel exercises tedious and challenging to perform consistently. 70% of women have some degree of incontinence at, at some point in their lives. So it is a major problem. And the solutions we have for female incontinence are completely inadequate. They are medications with unwanted side effects and surgeries that can have serious consequences. Both can interfere with sexual life. Women need to take action early to prevent incontinence and prolapse. Several new technological devices can strengthen the pelvic floor and improve bladder and sexual functioning. They do this by increasing the blood supply to the genitals and, and enhancing oxygenation and healing. I would like to mention them to you briefly here because I think they are essential for you to know about so you can share the information with your clients. Some clients may ask you about them. Why are these devices considered integrative? Well, primarily practitioners with integrative orientations are using them. They are not yet standard of care. They may have been FDA approved for other indications, but they're considered experimental and are used off-label for sexual dysfunction and pelvic floor problems, even though there is scientific evidence that they work. Next slide please.

Here are some treatments, electronic treatments to improve the pelvic floor muscles, bladder control, and sexual function. I'll do that. Over here are some therapies, electronic therapies to improve the pelvic floor muscles, bladder control, and sexual function. The first is pulse electromagnetic field therapy. In this treatment, a magnetic field stimulates the production of nitric oxide in the endothelial cells, lining the blood vessels, causing them to relax and open high intensity. Focused electromagnetic technology is another form of PEMF. Here a chair delivers electromagnetic pulses causing the pelvic floor muscles to contract. Six treatments are given over two weeks usually.

Then we have neuromuscular electric, no. The next one is neuromuscular electrical stimulation devices. These are similar to tens units. They deliver an electrical current causing the pelvic floor muscles to contract rhythm rhythmically without having to think or put in any effort. So compliance is better. Radio frequency. Thermal treatment is typically performed by gynecologists. A probe delivers painless heat to the vaginal canal and external clitoral and labial tissues. Three treatments are given a month apart. Then there's red light therapy with red or near infrared light. It can be directed towards the genitals or over the whole body. Red light stimulates the mitochondria to produce a TP. It has been shown to improve erectile dysfunction and it increases testosterone levels in studies. These treatments are expensive and not covered by insurance. I'm in the process of forming a nonprofit or organization called Wait. I am in the process of forming a nonprofit organization called pelvic floor rescue.org, where people can learn about their various options.

The next slide shows how you can obtain online integrative functional medicine training. You can go to any one of these institutions to become an integrative health coach or nutrition coach, the Institute of Integrative Nutrition in New York City, the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona, which is mostly online, and the Institute for Functional Medicine. And now for the final slide. I hope this brief overview gives you a sense of how integrative medicine can effectively treat sexual dysfunction. Often a combination of traditional and alternative therapies is the most effective approach due to synergy. For example, the patient might receive psychosexual therapy, pharmaceuticals, nutritional supplements, compounded creams and diet and lifestyle modifications, and where, where, and they might work in combination where any one of them individually might not work. I also recommend, our 2018 book Integrative Sexual Health as a primer for this integrative perspective. All the integrative solutions mentioned above are discussed in this book with supporting evidence. Our forthcoming book, which will be published by Oxford University Press, will be titled Optimal Sexual Health, and it will be updated to reflect the new research. It will be suitable for the general public and will so also serve as an excellent resource for professionals. I'm going to say that one again. It will be suitable for the general public and it will also serve as an excellent research resource for professionals.

Consider incorporating principles from integrative medicine into your practice. You will learn how to improve your health and that of your clients. They will then respond better to therapy for mental health issues and sexual problems. Thank you so much for your attention.

Part 3 of 3: Slide show and Dr. Bartlik's narration

 

Friday, May 9, 2025

INTELLIGENT (AND CLINICALLY-BACKED) SOLUTIONS TO SEXUAL DOWNTURN

By: Barbara Bartlik, MD 

We need more solutions for the sexual problems of men and women. Viagra-like medications are not always the answer. Half of the prescriptions written are not refilled. Pre-menopausal women now have two prescription medication therapies for low sexual desire: bremelanotide and flibanserin. But they are not gaining acceptance and are not covered by insurance for post-menopausal women. Evidence-based integrative medicine solutions are available as stand-alone or adjunctive therapies. Due to time limitations, I will briefly run through some of these. 

Most sexual problems are caused by a combination of psychological and physical issues. So, treating one without the other is not as effective as it could be. Nutritional deficiencies, inflammation, medication side effects, toxicity, and an unhealthy diet and lifestyle could contribute to or even cause sexual problems. Clients could be seen as treatment-resistant and unresponsive to sex therapy and mental health treatment when an undetected physiological problem is the primary cause. Clients feel cared for when you help them find new ways to improve their health. Integrative medicine counselling is perceived as psychologically supportive and may improve anxiety and mood. When clients improve their lifestyles, they lose weight and need less medication for psychiatric and medical conditions. These medications often harm sexual functioning, so it is essential to reduce them when possible. We need to think outside the box.  

Adequate sleep is essential to sex hormone production and sexual function. It also improves energy and mood and helps prevent weight gain. 

Ancient traditional therapies such as Ayurveda, acupuncture, aromatherapy, botanical medicine, European hydrotherapy, Traditional Chinese medicine, and others can help sexual problems. There is some scientific evidence that these can be beneficial.  

Exercise benefits mood, fitness, weight control, well-being, and sexuality. Anaerobic exercise of large muscle groups, such as doing squats, increases testosterone in men and possibly in women, which can improve desire and arousal. Yoga can increase flexibility and sexual performance. Other exercises can enhance the strength of the pelvic floor. 

Micronutrients are necessary for hormone production and metabolism, and for endothelial and neurotransmitter function. Many common medications deplete micronutrients, which can cause sexual dysfunction. Supplementing with the following micronutrients when they are deficient can improve sexual functioning: Vitamins C, D, B6, B12, Boron, Folate, Iron, Magnesium, Sodium, Zinc.  

Amino acids L-arginine and L-citrulline, precursors to nitric oxide, support vasodilatation and sexual function.  

    Omega-3 fatty acids support hormone metabolism, cardiovascular health, and neurological function. 

    Botanical medicines can benefit sexual function; Ashwagandha, damiana, horny goat weed, maca, ginseng, shilajit, and Tribulus are used traditionally for sexuality and most are backed up byresearch. 

    Off-label compounded penile and vulvar creams are mostly not evidence-based but are available through compounding pharmacies. They contain combinations of ingredients such as alprostadil, DHEA, L-arginine, PDE-5 inhibitors, pentoxifylline, phentolamine, testosterone, and theophylline. To learn more about these, ask a compounding pharmacist which preparations are most popular.  

    Oral troches and nasal sprays contain Oxytocin. 

    CBD is available over-the-counter, orally and in lotions and lubricants 

    DHEA may be taken orally or vaginally. 

    Vaginal moisturizers contain hyaluronic acid, vitamin E, and coconut oil  


Case: Vaginismus successfully treated with Viagra  

A 38-year-old married mother was the victim of sexual abuse by an older sibling when she was a child. She struggled with vaginismus from the time she was sexually active in her late teens until she was in her early thirties. After several years with her husband and treatment with vaginal dilators, she could finally have sexual intercourse comfortably. However, after the birth of her child, the vaginismus returned. She could not have intercourse for two years, but she and her husband engaged in other forms of sexual activity once or twice a week. She started on sildenafil 50 mg of sildenafil, which was very effective. She noted that her vagina felt more open, relaxed, and lubricated, and, after a few times, she had no pain on penetration.  

The research on PDE-5 inhibitors, the Viagra-like medications, in women is mixed, with some studies reporting that they are effective and others finding no efficacy. There is a study showing that sildenafil is helpful for unconsumated marriage. 

Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles improves bladder control and sexual function in men and women. Women who do Kegel exercises experience enhanced sexual desire, arousal, lubrication, and orgasm. Men experience improved erections, ejaculatory control, and orgasm. However, people find doing Kegel exercises tedious and challenging to do consistently. 70% of women have some degree of incontinence at some point in their lives. The solutions for female incontinence include medications with unwanted side effects and surgeries that can have serious consequences. Both can interfere with sexual life. Several new electrical or energy devices can help strengthen the pelvic floor and provide sexual benefits. I mention them briefly here because you might be able to help your clients by recommending them. 

Why are these devices considered integrative? For several reasons: (1) primarily, practitioners with an integrative orientation are using them; (2) they are not yet standard of care; they may have been FDA-approved for other indications but are considered experimental for sexual problems and are used off-label for sexual dysfunction. The devices may be safe, but questions of efficacy and safety remain about many of them, and most are expensive and not covered by insurance. 

    Emsella Pelvic Floor Treatment uses high-intensity focused electromagnetic technology to strengthen and tone the pelvic floor muscles. It is designed to improve urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, and vaginal laxity. It also improves sexual function in men and women. The client sits on a chair that emits electromagnetic pulses that stimulate the pelvic floor muscles, causing them to contract repeatedly, the equivalent of doing thousands of Kegel exercises in 30 minutes. 

     Neuromuscular Electrical Stimulation devices are similar to TENS units. They use electrodes to deliver an electrical current, which causes pelvic floor muscles to contract rhythmically. The electrodes can be applied externally to the vulva or intravaginally through a probe. 

    Pulsed Electromagnetic Frequency (PEMF) Treatment creates a magnetic field by pulsing an electric current through a coil. It increases nitric oxide production in the endothelial cells lining the blood vessels, causing them to relax. This improves circulation and oxygenation, reduces blood pressure, promotes healing, and increases genital engorgement. Studies show that nitric oxide levels in plasma increase after PEMF application (Kim, 2019). PEMF stimulates cell growth and repair and may improve vulvovaginal atrophy, erectile disorder, and orgasmic difficulties. 

    Radiofrequency Thermal Treatment is usually performed by gynecologists and involves inserting a probe in the vagina that delivers painless heat to the vaginal canal and external clitoral and labial tissues. The claim is that it improves circulation and blood flow, stimulates new collagen production, and regenerates nerves.  Women have reported improvements in their ability to orgasm, postpartum healing, sexual pleasure, vaginal intercourse satisfaction, vaginal laxity, vaginal moisture during sexual activity, mild bladder prolapse and urinary leakage.  

    Red Light Therapy uses red or near-infrared light to stimulate the mitochondria and enhance ATP production. This promotes circulation, collagen formation, and healing and reduces inflammation. The light is directed toward the genitals using a wrap, a seat, or other methods. Studies have shown that red light therapy can improve penile blood flow and erectile dysfunction and increase testosterone levels, sperm volume, and sexual satisfaction.  

    Consider including  Integrative/Functional principles to your psychotherapy practice. You will learn how to improve your health and that of your clients by helping them adopt a healthier lifestyle. They will then respond better to therapy for mental health issues and sexual problems.  


    You can obtain integrative medicine training and become an integrative health coach at the following: 

     * Institute of Integrative Nutrition (IIN), NYC, https://www.integrativenutrition.com/ 

     * Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine (AWCIM), University of Arizona, https://awcim.arizona.edu 

     * Institute for Functional Medicine (IFM), https://www.ifm.org  

Tuesday, May 6, 2025

When Desire Fades: The Growing Need for New Approaches in Sexual Medicine

Written by: Lennard M. Goetze, Ed.D & edited by: Marilyn Abrahamson (editor of INSIGHTS Magazine)

 Foreword

In today’s rapidly evolving healthcare landscape, the intersection of mental health, hormonal wellness, and sexual health is receiving long-overdue attention. As traditional medical approaches often fall short in addressing the complex, deeply personal challenges faced by individuals experiencing sexual dysfunction, integrative medicine offers new avenues for healing.

Dr. Barbara Bartlik, a distinguished psychiatrist, sex therapist, and leader in integrative medicine, has dedicated her career to bridging these disciplines. Through decades of clinical experience, academic teaching, and active participation in leading medical symposia, Dr. Bartlik advocates for comprehensive, evidence-based approaches that treat the whole person—not just isolated symptoms.

In the following feature, Dr. Bartlik highlights emerging trends in sexual health, the alarming decline in libido and testosterone, and the growing influence of modern lifestyle factors on intimacy and relationships. Drawing upon both conventional and integrative strategies, she makes a compelling case for why new solutions are urgently needed—and how integrative, functional medicine can help fill that gap.

Integrative Solutions for Sexual Wellness  (Part 1): Beyond the Prescription Pad

Dr. Bartlik highlights the ongoing need for more effective, evidence-based solutions for sexual problems in both men and women. While two medications for low sexual desire are now approved for premenopausal women—a significant achievement—these treatments have been slow to gain widespread acceptance and are notably not covered by insurance for postmenopausal women, a demographic that urgently needs support.

She notes that while medications such as Viagra and related drugs offer benefits, they are not a universal answer. The fact that approximately half of prescriptions for these medications go unrefilled underscores the need for innovative, integrative, and personalized approaches to sexual health care.


Disconnected: Why Couples Are Having Less Sex — and What to Do About It
Before summarizing integrative therapies, Dr. Bartlik reviews prevalent sexual health concerns that demand new solutions. Chief among them is low libido, a common sexual complaint that has long been the most frequently reported issue among women. Contributing factors include relationship difficulties, busy schedules, restrictive cultural or religious backgrounds, concerns about physical appearance, menopausal symptoms, vaginal pain, and the lasting effects of cancer and its treatments.

She references Rosemary Basson’s model of the female sexual response, which suggests that many women do not typically experience spontaneous sexual desire. Instead, desire often emerges in response to a partner’s initiation. However, if male partners are experiencing their own issues, including diminished libido, this dynamic can become further complicated.

Studies show that the frequency of sexual activity among both married couples and individuals in relationships has declined to historic lows, a trend exacerbated during the COVID-19 pandemic and persisting in its aftermath.


Stress and Screens: How Modern Life Is Eroding Intimacy
Men, too, are experiencing lower libido rates than in previous generations. Dr. Bartlik attributes this trend to a combination of factors: anxiety, mood disorders, stress, shifting social roles, economic pressures, sedentary lifestyle, and the use of medication. These factors contribute to a reduction in testosterone levels and decreased interest in forming intimate relationships.

Increased access to alternative sexual outlets such as online pornography has also altered interpersonal dynamics—men don’t desire real women as much as they used to, which is very distressing to women. Excessive screen time through exposure to content that is not explicit also takes away from time that would otherwise be spent on social or sexual engagement. While younger individuals may gravitate toward video games, older adults often turn to television and streaming media, further diminishing opportunities for connection.


Testosterone in Freefall: What It Means for Men, Women, and Relationships
A particularly concerning issue Dr. Bartlik addresses is the significant decline in testosterone levels among men. She cites research indicating that a 22-year-old man today has an average testosterone level equivalent to that of a 67-year-old man in the year 2000. Overall, testosterone levels have dropped more than 20% over the past two decades—from an average of 600 ng/dL in 2000 to approximately 450 ng/dL in 2018. Currently, one in four men over the age of 30 has clinically low testosterone.


Alongside this, sperm counts have declined by 60% in the last 40 years, with male infertility on the rise. Dr. Bartlik underscores that testosterone is essential not only for sexual health but also for mental well-being, affecting mood, anxiety, sleep, self-esteem, vitality, and overall energy.


Modern Intimacy in Crisis: The Integrative Medicine Perspective
While previously mentioned factors play a role, Dr. Bartlik notes that other contributors of particular interest to the integrative medicine community merit further exploration. By considering hormonal health, nutrition, lifestyle habits, environmental exposures, and the psychosocial landscape, integrative practitioners have an opportunity to develop new, personalized, evidence-based therapies that address the complex, interconnected challenges of sexual health in the 21st century.




ABOUT DR. BARTLIK

Dr. Barbara Bartlik is an integrative psychiatrist and sex therapist known for her holistic approach to mental and sexual health. She earned her medical degree from the Albert Einstein College of Medicine and completed a residency and fellowship at NYU. Early in her career, she trained under Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan, a pioneering sex therapist, and later worked at Weill Cornell Medical College. Dr. Bartlik’s interest in integrative medicine grew from personal health challenges, leading her to adopt dietary changes, remove mercury dental fillings, and use nutritional supplements—experiences that significantly improved her well-being. These transformations inspired her to incorporate integrative practices into her psychiatric care, emphasizing nutrition and addressing deficiencies to enhance mood and health, often reducing the need for psychiatric medications.

She is particularly focused on sexual health, noting the negative impact psychiatric medications can have on sexual function. By combining psychiatric care with holistic strategies, Dr. Bartlik helps minimize medication reliance while improving mental and sexual well-being. A board-certified expert in integrative medicine, she frequently presents at prominent conferences and advocates for better solutions in sexual health, particularly for postmenopausal women.



Sunday, May 4, 2025

GO SHAME-FREE! SEXUALITY IS A MAJOR INGREDIENT OF OUR HEALTH AND WELLNESS




The Women’s Professional Health Network is proud to introduce Jennifer Wiessner, LCSW, CST a Certified Sex Therapist, Sexual Wellness Consultant, Educator, and Entrepreneur dedicated to promoting healthy, shame-free conversations about sexuality. As Maine’s only female AASECT-certified Sex Therapist in 2012, she paved the way for a growing network of professionals in her state. In 2023, Jennifer was honored with the Maine Family Planning Significant Contributor to Sexuality Education award for her continued advocacy and education.

Jennifer’s mission is to reduce shame around sexual health and empower individuals, families, and providers through compassionate, accessible education. She specializes in sex therapy for all orientations, sexual medicine issues, and later adolescent care, alongside offering one-time, non-therapy consultations across the U.S.

Passionate about community impact, Jennifer created Raising Sexually Healthy Children, workshops for parents, educators, and providers, and co-founded Girls on Fire, an annual empowerment event for young women. She regularly educates medical and mental health  providers, medical students, school and camp staff on integrating sexual health into holistic care.

Jennifer offers virtual, in-home, and office-based consultations and workshops, believing that through open, informed conversations, we can replace shame with celebration — one person, one family, one community at a time.

 

FROM THE SOURCE:
Jennifer Wiessner, Sexual Wellness Consultant

From Maine Magazine/Photo: Myriam Babin
I have been called to the deeply resonant work of sexuality for 15 years as a licensed clinical social worker and an AASECT certified sex therapist and sexual health consultant. I believed many years ago when I had small children that if I could help parents of young children communicate about bodies, boundaries, healthy touch, sexuality, pleasure, consent, I could change the world because then an entire generation of children would grow up with less shame, more knowledge and pride in their bodies. I continue that work today alongside my couples and sex therapy practice, my sexual health consultations, lecturing and raising sexually healthy children workshops. Yes, I know I do many things, but it's because sexuality has an intersectional thread in every aspect of our humanity. My passion about sexuality and sexual health is like breathing for me because it's so integral to all of us and yet so suppressed and misunderstood, especially for female bodied people, causing women to relinquish precious energy and self-love.

Our sexuality intersects with every aspect of our wellbeing, and yet has been overlooked by our culture, our care professionals, and even ourselves. Most people don't know that talking about sexuality with others, particularly our friends, can help us better understand sexual norms, like even knowing if we're treated well in a relationship, how do we know if we don't talk about it? Also, talking about sexuality with close friends can create more solid relationships and allies. If we talk about sexuality, there is likely little else we can't discuss and then we know who our support network is. It can also make it easier to talk to medical providers who often don't have the comfort or skillset to do so. Sadly, most of us don't like to talk about sexuality, especially if we feel like something has changed in it. Think perimenopause or menopause. As care providers, we need to have courage to change this for ourselves, for our patients and all the young women that come after us.

The reality is we are always changing and are always in transition, and as women, it is difficult to get accurate, actionable information on what is happening to our bodies and hormones from basically age 35 plus. My work in sexual health is multidimensional and includes providing emotional and functional support to patients alongside medical providers. I help adults, particularly women, to better understand their bodies, work through oppressive early messaging, trauma, bodily dysfunction issues, pain, arousal issues, struggles with intimacy and health conditions that impact intimacy with themselves and partners. What is important is that we get informed, have resources for our patients, and collaborate with providers who are skilled in sexuality and the female experience.

The lack of sexual education and body-positive role models weighs heavily on our psyche and dampens our sexual energy. The more we talk about it, the more we bring our sexuality and sexual health out of the oppressive shadows into the light of our everyday experience where it belongs. It is our birthright and a foundational aspect of our humanity. Two quotes I enjoy are: “Your body is not your art, it's your paintbrush" By Glennon Doyle and from Gloria Steinem: “Each individual woman's body demands to be accepted on its own terms." My work is to help each person, each woman, to realize the full and expansive breath of their sexuality on their own terms without shame as a backdrop. It's important to note that sexual shame or shame of any kind, is not our natural state.

It is not in our nature to feel ashamed of who we are as human beings. We are not born ashamed of ourselves. Shame of all kinds is learned and can severely limit us. Some have even called shame our biggest cultural of fear. Shame is like pine pitch; no matter how many times you wash your hands, it's still feels sticky. Sex therapy can help with the self-discovery and healing from the negative effects of shame can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic relationship with sexuality.

Our pleasure is our gift and to be celebrated. It is a life force that is powerful, and when harnessed, we connect to a deep sense of ourselves, our personal power, and can access greater health and creativity in our lives and in our work. My work and my passion is to help all people, particularly women, awaken this energy, connect to themselves, their work, creative endeavors and relationships, all increasing wellbeing. The ultimate goal for us is to support children and young women from the schoolroom, to the boardroom, to the bedroom. Anything less is faux-powerment. As medical and mental health providers, we can dismantle sexual shame, connect to the joy of our bodies, and create a world where every woman, from the womb through menopause and beyond, has access to the resources, support, and empowerment she needs to thrive.

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Contact: https://jenniferwiessnerhealthysexuality.com/



Friday, April 25, 2025

4/2025- Sexual Health Symposium / Mt. Sinai (feat. Dr. Barbara Bartlik)


FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Dr. Barbara Bartlik Illuminates Integrative Approaches to Sexual Health at Mt. Sinai 2025 Sexual Health Symposium


NYC/ April 2025 - At the forefront of a rapidly evolving conversation on sexual wellness, Dr. Barbara Bartlik, one of New York Magazine's Best Doctors in Psychiatry and a nationally recognized leader in integrative medicine, delivered a featured lecture at “Symposium 2025: On Human Sexuality,” hosted by Mt. Sinai Medical Center. Her presentation, titled “Integrative Medicine Treatment of Sexual Problems,” offered a comprehensive exploration of contemporary solutions for sexual health issues affecting both men and women. The annual symposium, organized under the direction of Dr. Ahron Friedberg and co‐directors Dr. Vladan Novakovic and Jennifer Harper, M.Div., drew clinicians, psychoanalysts, and mental health professionals from across the country. Framed within a nuanced discussion on the complexities of human sexuality, the event sought to advance open, inclusive, and evidence‐based dialogues around topics too often marginalized by politics, social norms, and traditional medical models.

A Holistic Lens on Sexual Health, Dr. Bartlik’s presentation stood out for its integrative perspective, merging conventional psychiatry with emerging technologies and natural therapies. Her review addressed a spectrum of conditions, from common sexual dysfunctions and mood disorders to menopause‐related issues, pelvic floor dysfunction, and bladder health. She highlighted the importance of tailoring treatment plans that honor both the physiological and psychological dimensions of sexual wellness.

Among the therapeutic modalities discussed were the use of Viagra in women, sexually- enhancing nutritional supplements and creams, red light therapy, Pulsed Electromagnetic Field (PEMF) therapy, healthy lifestyle interventions, alongside established psychopharmacologic and psychotherapeutic approaches. Dr. Bartlik stated that testosterone levels in men are in steep decline, along with sperm counts and fertility. Urinary leakage is a major problem affecting over 70 percent of older women. Pharmaceutical and surgical solutions are woefully inadequate. 

Numerous technological advances effectively treat this condition but are not FDA- approved or covered by insurance, so the cost is out-of-reach for most women. “This is a major women’s health issue that needs immediate attention,” according to Dr. Bartlik. She emphasized the growing body of evidence supporting these techniques as adjunctive or alternative options, particularly for patients seeking non‐pharmaceutical interventions or those with treatment‐resistant conditions, “Sexual health is inseparable from mental health,” Dr. Bartlik noted during her lecture. “Our role as clinicians is to create space for individualized care — integrating the best of conventional medicine with scientifically grounded natural therapies.”

SHOWCASING AN EDUCATIONAL RESOURCE
In addition to her presentation, Dr. Bartlik highlighted her textbook, INTEGRATIVE SEXUAL HEALTH, a landmark contribution to the (Dr. Andrew) Weil Integrative Medicine Library published by Oxford University Press (2018). The book offers in‐depth clinical guidance for practitioners and positions itself as a leading reference in the intersection of sexual health, psychiatry, and integrative medicine. 

A THOUGHTFUL SYMPOSIUM FRAMEWORK
This year’s symposium took a reflective approach to the broader landscape of human sexuality. In his opening remarks, Dr. Friedberg spoke to the evolving discourse: “Human sexuality is complex, its expressions varied and often shaped by unconscious conflicts and cultural scripts. Our task is to bring these conversations into the open — not only to treat, but to understand.” 

The event also featured a distinguished lineup of speakers including Dr. Harold Bronheim, Dr. Mark J. Blechner, Christian Churchill, PhD, Dr. Vicente Liz Defillo, Martina De Giorgis, LCSW, Dr. Jennifer Downey, Dr. Elizabeth Grill, Dr. Monique Rinere, Dr. Phillip Luloff, covering topics from psychoanalytic interpretations of sexuality to reproductive mental health and the psychodynamics of sexual identity.


About Dr. Bartlik...

DR. BARBARA BARTLIK is a Manhattan‐based psychiatrist, integrative medicine specialist, and sexual health expert with over 30 years of clinical practice. She is widely recognized for her holistic approach to patient care, combining conventional treatments with evidence‐based natural therapies. A prolific author and educator, Dr. Bartlik continues to shape contemporary conversations around sexual health, psychotherapy, and integrative medical care.


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For more information about Dr. Bartlik and Integrative Sexual Health, https://drbarbaramd.com/

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Sunday, March 30, 2025

SEXUAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES WITH MENOPAUSE: By Barbara Bartlik, MD

The onset of menopause, typically in a woman’s early 50s, is a time of major physiological transition, due mainly to plummeting estrogen levels. The hormone estrogen, primarily produced in the ovaries, controls the female reproductive cycle and sexual response and affects all of female biology. Estrogen is anti-inflammatory and protects the bones, brain, gut, heart, joints, nervous system, and skin, so when a woman enters menopause, her whole system undergoes major changes. These changes lead to unwanted sexual changes, such as vaginal dryness, reduced lubrication, painful intercourse, orgasmic difficulties, and low libido. Estrogen is to women as testosterone is to men: with low levels of estrogen, women can lose interest in sex and have difficulty performing. If they become anxious or depressed, this, too, can impact their sexuality.  

The extent and severity of menopausal changes can vary significantly from woman to woman. Some may experience no mood changes, while others may experience low mood and even depression. Unhappiness and dissatisfaction can arise from physical changes and loss of fertility that accompany aging. Weight gain, graying hair, and wrinkles can negatively affect a woman's self-esteem..

Menopause is no longer synonymous with old age, but rather a time of transition and potential growth. With women now living at least one-third of their lives past menopause, many are prompted to make positive changes - increasing exercise, improving diet, giving up unhealthy habits, and making  psychological adjustments. Many women find themselves feeling empowered and better than ever, a state that anthropologist Margaret Mead referred to as “menopausal zest.” 

However, many women do experience deep depression that may require psychiatric medication; some require hospitalization for the first time in their lives. Rates of depression increase two-fold (Freeman, 2006). The reduction in estrogen decreases the feel-good neurochemicals dopamine and serotonin. For most women, there is a period when hot flashes interfere with the workday and also with sleep, which contributes to depression. Again, duration and severity vary widely. Many women experience a reduction in sexual feeling and interest related to hormonal changes, vaginal discomfort, disturbed sleep, and low energy. For some, this persists, but not for all. At the same time, their partner may be experiencing problems related to sexual functioning or midlife issues. These experiences are normal and shared by many women going through menopause. You are not alone in this new normal.

What can a woman do to minimize the psychological and sexual changes that accompany menopause? First and foremost, maintain a healthy lifestyle. Reducing alcohol intake, quitting smoking, regular exercise, and consuming a balanced diet can all offer benefits - these changes alone can often stop hot flashes and insomnia. Secondly, engage in stress-relieving practices, such as meditation, yoga, exercise, spending time in nature, enjoying music, and engaging in pleasurable hobbies. Seek support and guidance from specialists who can provide solutions. And finally, do not neglect your sex life and go into sexual retirement. Keeping it active can improve your psychological health, relationship, vaginal health, sexual competence, and vitality.  

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AUTHOR

DR. BARBARA BARTLIK is a recognized expert clinician and author in integrative medicine, psychiatry, and sexual health. She is in private practice in Midtown Manhattan and has treated men, women, and couples with a broad range of psychiatric and sexual problems for over 30 years. She sees patients both in the office and virtually. Dr. Bartlik is an editor of the book, Integrative Sexual Health, a volume in the [Dr. Andrew] Weil Integrative Medicine Library (2018). She takes a holistic approach to treatment, emphasizing lifestyle and nutritional strategies, and seeking to responsibly minimize the use of pharmaceuticals while optimizing health and well-being. Dr. Bartlik uses sophisticated laboratory tests to seek out underlying sources of inflammation that lead to medical and emotional problems and addresses them through diet, nutritional supplementation, and the elimination of toxins and other offending factors. For more information, visit her website: https://drbarbaramd.com/


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"I am so grateful for Dr. Bartlik for this powerful and deeply resonant article! I only wish I had come across something like it when I was 45. My perimenopause crept in silently and, for nearly a decade, drained the joy from my life in ways I didn’t understand at the time. I took the changes in my relationship and the diminishing spark far too personally, which created tension and took a toll on my self-esteem. It wasn’t until I turned 55 that I realized what I had actually been navigating all those years. That’s why this article struck such a chord—and why I would love to share it widely, especially with younger women. When we’re equipped with knowledge, suffering truly becomes optional. I especially appreciated that it didn’t just focus on the physical challenges (which are of course very real and important), but also highlighted the opportunity for transformation this time in life offers. Mental and emotional well-being are key pillars in my work with women in midlife, and it’s affirming to see these aspects so thoughtfully explored." - Sabine Gee - Midlife Health & Menopause Expert



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NAVIGATING CHANGES IN MIDLIFE
As women enter menopause and even many years prior in perimenopause, sexual changes begin to surface that can feel disorienting. Our culture is sex-saturated and yet sex-silent. With many adults having received little to no functional sexuality education while growing up, adults lack the support for open and healthy discussions surrounding the physical, emotional, mental, and sexual aspects of our well-being. Most medical and behavioral health providers lack the skills to comfortably address sexuality concerns.

As a certified sex therapist, I support women and couples navigating the changes of midlife, menopause and andropause (male equivalent of menopause). Most adults present feeling alone and fearful of the changes in libido and function. With few people they can talk to, they feel further disconnected from themselves and a partner. As many as 42 percent of women and 54 percent of men are not satisfied with their sex lives. Most people will experience sexual dissatisfaction at some point in their lifetime. Knowing we are not alone can encourage people to seek supportive therapy. Sex therapy can support individuals and couples to better understand the universal changes happening in midlife and beyond and how to better communicate about them and seek the medical and psychological support they need that can improve their sexual health. 

Beginning this process can include visiting the national directory for the American Association for Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and find a qualified professional in your state. aasect.org

Jennifer Wiessner, LCSW, CST

Part 1, 2 and 3

PART 1   PART 2  PART 3 Hello everyone. I am Dr. Barbara Bartlik, and I am presenting a lecture that I delivered at Mount Sinai Medical C...